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Thursday, 04 December 2008
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A scene that touched my heart
hey ya..sorry for not keeping my promise..I have to admit it, I was lazy to blog & I had nothing to blog about but then things have changed now....
Well, I'm back HOME...yipee!! (so happy =) )
Any how, I want to share something I saw & really touched me (I teared..seriously..). My mum & I was doing our morning exercise at the park in Taman Tun. (I miss Malaysia's park..It's beautiful but the bad thing about exercising here is that I perspire more compared to Australia...Anyway, we were about to finish exercising as the trail has come to an end, something caught my eye. It was a some guy doing some football tricks and I think his sis was recording him on video cam but that wasn't the thing that really caught my eye. It was this lil boy in crutches who has a leg disability. I think he was born with a symptom were by his legs are not straigth ( forgive me for my direct explanation..I'm not sure the proper & the nicest way to explain this..don't want to sound insensitive..) .
He was looking & admiring this guy doing tricks with his legs..I saw this & my heart just melt. I was speechless.. Looking at this scene/picture, this came to my mind that this lil boy didn't choose to be like that but yet he wasn't letting that get in the way. I smiled at him and he smiled back..I teared ( I'm not bluffing..my mum saw it & i explained how I feel about this boy..she too was slightly teary)..
What really touched me was this lil boy (I think he is less than 8 years old) was exercising with his crutches. He didn't want his disability to stand in the way of walking. He was so determined to walk with his cructches to get use to it. He could easily choose a wheelchair to go around but no..This lil boy working so hard to walk using crutches bigger than him..It also looks like the cructhes was quite heavy for him...He wasn't embarrass about his situation or that he walked slowly...I was soo tempted to hug him & encourage him but I was pretty scared..On the way to the car, I said a small prayer for him & I know he will be in good hands...
What I learned from this is that no matter what is situation I am in, there'll be someone out there worse off so don't compare; be grateful for what I have & things I don't have....Love life, Love ALL people..Love YOURSELF!!!
Thanks for reading...
HUGS
Prissy
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A scene that touched my heart
hey ya..sorry for not keeping my promise..I have to admit it, I was lazy to blog & I had nothing to blog about but then things have changed now....
Well, I'm back HOME...yipee!! (so happy =) )
Any how, I want to share something I saw & really touched me (I teared..seriously..). My mum & I was doing our morning exercise at the park in Taman Tun. (I miss Malaysia's park..It's beautiful but the bad thing about exercising here is that I perspire more compared to Australia...Anyway, we were about to finish exercising as the trail has come to an end, something caught my eye. It was a some guy doing some football tricks and I think his sis was recording him on video cam but that wasn't the thing that really caught my eye. It was this lil boy in crutches who has a leg disability. I think he was born with a symptom were by his legs are not straigth ( forgive me for my direct explanation..I'm not sure the proper & the nicest way to explain this..don't want to sound insensitive..) .
He was looking & admiring this guy doing tricks with his legs..I saw this & my heart just melt. I was speechless.. Looking at this scene/picture, this came to my mind that this lil boy didn't choose to be like that but yet he wasn't letting that get in the way. I smiled at him and he smiled back..I teared ( I'm not bluffing..my mum saw it & i explained how I feel about this boy..she too was slightly teary)..
What really touched me was this lil boy (I think he is less than 8 years old) was exercising with his crutches. He didn't want his disability to stand in the way of walking. He was so determined to walk with his cructches to get use to it. He could easily choose a wheelchair to go around but no..This lil boy working so hard to walk using crutches bigger than him..It also looks like the cructhes was quite heavy for him...He wasn't embarrass about his situation or that he walked slowly...I was soo tempted to hug him & encourage him but I was pretty scared..On the way to the car, I said a small prayer for him & I know he will be in good hands...
What I learned from this is that no matter what is situation I am in, there'll be someone out there worse off so don't compare; be grateful for what I have & things I don't have....Love life, Love ALL people..Love YOURSELF!!!
Thanks for reading...
HUGS
Prissy
Thursday, 30 October 2008
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Live longer by being POSITIVE
Hey hey,
Its been super duper long time since I wrote..*GOSH*...Well, currently, I'm preparing for my final semester exam & I really WANT to do WELL so I'm kinda stressed out now..Any how, I was bored & decided to write something that anyone can relate to..
So I want to write about being positive. Being positive is pretty hard. You have to think & act positive every time which is pretty hard ( I even admit it). Whats the point of being EMO when there are so many beautiful things around me when I'm sad? -Question I asked myself-
It's difficult but when you think positively, something sort of happen. Your burden you carry will sort of be lifted off (It's difficult to explain but you should try). For example, let's say, one day you woke up & found out that there's a huge pimple on your face. It can't be hidden & it's really hideous. MOST of you will freak out ( I admit, I too) right??? So what do you do? Surely, you will try your best to fix it & be so stressed out ( level of self-esteem will get worse). You will be constantly wondering what is people thinking about your face...la la de da..-you know what I mean- SO to be positive means being GRATEFUL. You have a pimple but THANK GOD, you have a face or a nose or proper body-part. There are people out there who are sooooo WORSE off. I saw one time on TV, children with disfigured faces. I was so shocked & astonished by them because even though they have this disability, they can carry out their lives like normal & being positive. This really can put us to SHAME!!
To be not grateful, you will constantly want something better than what we have now. You will be so stressed out, shameful of yourself & work your ass off. Isn't that true??
Firstly, (a disclaimer..hehe) its good to work your ass off in your studies or work to get a better life for yourself or family.. That's all right.. BUT working hard for stupid things like proofing yourself to people around you or constantly want to look perfect ( no one is perfect by the way) is really ridiculous....
JUST be GRATEFUL!!! Gratefullness will lead to HAPPINESS....SO be grateful, be POSITIVE..think opposite of negative...DON't be EMO..lol
ALL this will make you live longer, happier & be a better person...
That's all for now.. till then...TC
xoxo,
Prissy
Monday, 22 September 2008
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What GALS want?
hey hey..(this blog is continuation from the older post)...
Let's talk about DATES:
Firstly, if you really want to impress a girl on a date. The key is to be yourself & be a gentlemen too (at the same time)..There are some guys that took the 'being yourself' too seriously on the first date and freaked out the girl..LOL...Let's just say that first dates are very important because it shows whether there is something special in the relationship *the SPARK/attraction*...
Well,dinner & movies are alright but not all the time..Girls really appreaciate it when guys put effort into organising/planning the dates..
*tip: try to do something different once in awhile like bringing her to a romantic spot(park, hill..etc) or bring her somewhere to have a good time (museum, theme park,art gallery..but make sure you bring her to somewhere you know/think that she has interest in)
a place with scenery....(romantic)
*tip: GIRLS love surprises once in awhile..it adds SPICE & mystery in the relationship
Now, let's talk about PRESENTS:
Will boys, I know it's difficult to buy presents for girls but to tell you the truth..It's pretty easy..lol...
*tip: if you aren't certain or really hopeless in getting presents, ask for help from her friends/relatives...
The key is when you want to get the girl a present.Keep in mind her interest and her personality.. Usually boys will buy the same old things like soft toys, bouquet, jewellery..etc...There's nothing wrong with it it's just that some girls are more sentimental. They prefer their partner to get them something unique/different..Keep in mind that most girls believe that LOVE can't be BOUGHT with presents...
*tip: make her something like a card, write her a song/poem, cook a meal, get her something that she has been keepin an eye for a long time....
*tip: when you make something eventhough it isn't that pretty, the girl will be so touched to see the effort you put into that present..She willl realise that you taking the relationship seriously...
do you know why I want to mention about dates & presents??
You see that presents & dates are very important to girls (especially you guys just gt to together or maybe longer) because girls will sometimes over-analyse things. Presents & dates will determine whether the guy is taking the gal seriously or not..You make not entirely agree with me & I totally understand because it's sounds self-centered but it's kinda true....
So guys, please spoil your girls once in awhile..Surprise them..Care for them...Be love-y dove-y...
Hugs..
Prissy
Tuesday, 16 September 2008
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What GIRLS want from BOYS?
Hiya...
Today I want to blog about what girls actually MEANT when we are talking & want we really WANT from BOYS...
It's a lil secret, I want to share so..hush*hush
As a girl myself, I have to admit that we girls are one complicated species..=p
When we say something, we actually mean something else..For example, when people ask "Is there anything wrong? / Are you okay?" & we will answer "Everything is alright/ I'm fine" when we actually aren't...
We are pretty tricky sex to read..Our minds are wired differently which has its own good & bad..
I have to admit that we are tricky & sneaky people..We will want to test you on how you response & things like that..
We play hard-to-get because we aren't sure sometimes(we don't want our feeling to get hurt/disappointed) & want to take the easy way out..
Remember your high-school dramas??..oooo...When you think about it,it's kinda funny...Those puppy-love stories, jealousy,EGO etc...
Well, when girls are in high-school, we have the lowest self-esteem cause we growing up,insecure of our bodies & emotions..Back to the point, in high-school,we have this delusion that we are in those love-high school drama shows seeking for 'TRUE' love...MAN!! I have to say that is kinda ridiculous..Any how, in high-school, love or maybe I should say that attraction to the opposite sex is something new to girls & it's our first time handling this kind of issues..So we handle things pretty immaturedly like the show 'MEAN GIRLS'...WE pretty much play with the boy's feelings & stuff because we want to test them (by making things difficult for them till u pass the test-by continue pressing on)..LOL..funny huh?
[So,on the behalf of all GIRLS that have broken your heart during high-school days..I wanna say "SORRY!!!"]
*GOSH*....
If you really care about a girl ( a specific girl) & you want to know her better-here's some tips-
a) be a GOOD LISTENER -very important
=gals will want their companion to be understanding & be there in times of need to share etc..
=not only that..learn to listen carefully like her TONE of her voice..we sometimes say other things to cover-up what's going on (faking it)
b)be THERE 4 HER when she needs you the most ( really a plus point)
c)material things are not really important..We will prefer to see your EFFORT put into making that something happen (eg: planning a day-trip for a date)
=some gals like boys giving them presents but after awhile they will kinda get bored so will thing that you are not putting enough effort..blah blah
=but there are also some gals who wouldn't like their companions to constantly give/buy presents because they don't want to feel 'cheap' or their LOVE can be BOUGHT
*so becareful on this one*
d)compliment her ( don't degrade her: don't make fun of her body when you know that she is sensitive about that issue/low self-esteem )
e)be HONEST....(white lie is still a LIE)
example: when she tried on a clothing & she asked you what you think, please be truthful & tell her what you actually think but try to say it in a right way
-if you give a negative feedback & she will sometimes get hurt (gals are like that) but after awhile she will realise that you just being truthful which is sooo much better when she finds out that you are lying*you know what I mean?*
I really do want to help guys out there to understand gals better so that the world be a better place filled with LOVE,happiness,PEACE,less fighthing/arguing...
so this topic is going to take some time...SO this is TO BE CONTINUED!!
for now,
love,
Prissy aka
MizButterfly
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