Are you in love or plain confused?

Are you pretending to be in love just because* ?

• there's an attachment (a long one) till you can't remember a time being with another person
• fear of loosing - just plain scared of loosing the person even though you don't have any more feelings for he/she
• fear of what will lie ahead - singletown
• etc

There are so many reasons why we fake love.

Those couples who deadly in-love with one another are so blessed but very few. Let's not count the lovers in the 'honeymoon' stage. Just imagine, after being together with someone for so long, you'll suddenly realise certain truths about him/her and you start to doubt youself; 'Did I make the right choice?', 'Am I wasting my time and effort?', 'Am I better off without him/her?, 'Is he/she like that and will he/she be like that in the future?'.

What's fake love?

In my opinion, the best way to sum the meaning of fake love is not being sincere when loving someone. You act out of a heavy heart/felt obligated to love someone. It could be to your spouse, partner, friends or family members.

Let us be honest. Have you ever pretended to be in love?

>>to be continued<<

hey ya..sorry for not keeping my promise..I have to admit it, I was lazy to blog & I had nothing to blog about but then things have changed now....

Well, I'm back HOME...yipee!! (so happy =) )

Any how, I want to share something I saw & really touched me (I teared..seriously..). My mum & I was doing our morning exercise at the park in Taman Tun. (I miss Malaysia's park..It's beautiful but the bad thing about exercising here is that I perspire more compared to Australia...Anyway, we were about to finish exercising as the trail has come to an end, something caught my eye. It was a some guy doing some football tricks and I think his sis was recording him on video cam but that wasn't the thing that really caught my eye. It was this lil boy in crutches who has a leg disability. I think he was born with a symptom were by  his legs are not straigth ( forgive me for my direct explanation..I'm not sure the proper & the nicest way to explain this..don't want to sound insensitive..) .

He was looking & admiring this guy doing tricks with his legs..I saw this & my heart just melt. I was speechless.. Looking at this scene/picture, this came to my mind that this lil boy didn't choose to be like that but yet he wasn't letting that get in the way. I smiled at him and he smiled back..I teared ( I'm not bluffing..my mum saw it & i explained how I feel about this boy..she too was slightly teary)..

What really touched me was this lil boy (I think he is less than 8 years old) was exercising with his crutches. He didn't want his disability to stand in the way of walking. He was so determined to walk with his cructches to get use to it. He could easily choose a wheelchair to go around but no..This lil boy working so hard to walk using crutches bigger than him..It also looks like the cructhes was quite heavy for him...He wasn't embarrass about his situation or that he walked slowly...I was soo  tempted to hug him & encourage him but I was pretty scared..On the way to the car, I said a small prayer for him & I know he will be in good hands...

What I learned from this is that no matter what is situation I am in, there'll be someone out there worse off so don't compare; be grateful for what I have & things I don't have....Love life, Love ALL people..Love YOURSELF!!!

Thanks for reading...

HUGS

Prissy